Is summer over yet?
Oh, yeah, I don’t have a break. And my children do! So here’s what I want–or rather don’t want–for me (and everyone around me) to be sane:
No unfinished chores. No whining about housework–and not from Young Son either. No fussing about when allowance is due, and how much is owed. No rethinking every day what needs to be done. No raised voices. No conflict. Sound impossible?
It’s happening! It’s My Job Chart!
The evening we set it up, eleven-year-old Young Son rushed around to do all of his chores rather than wait a whole day to begin earning. Naturally. I had to watch my computer because he sneaked into my side to add additional jobs, like “Make Mom’s bed.” He awarded it 15 points. (Hmmm. Would you pay 15 cents to have your bed made daily?) The child who would rather scrub toilets than sweep floors is suddenly doing both.
My favorite part is the messaging between the site and the parent’s cell or e-mail (or both). Here are a few messages I’ve received:
“I love this. I think that the way that they do this is absolutely amazing.”
“You are the most awesome mom a kid could have. Thank you for raising me to be nice, kind, n civilized.”
“I love you so blinking much, that i’m jolly well tearing up,wot wot!”
“You’re a blinkin’ genius, wot wot!”
(Yes, I am, thank you, but in this case, credit goes to Gregg Murset, My Job Chart founder, financial planner, and father of six.)
And Young Son enjoys my notes as well:
“I always knew you were a hard worker, but this is inspiring. I appreciate all you’re doing.”
So I’ll return to my teaching prep now as a delightful child practices musical theater solos while scrubbing his bathtub.
Text © Gwyn Nichols 2011. All Rights Reserved.